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nniixx:

Tracy/Tracey’s

How can you have lived for so long and still not get it? This self obsession, it’s a waste of living. It could be spent on surviving things, appreciating nature, nurturing kindness and friendship. And dancing.
Only Lovers Left Alive (via ningyouhime)

walmartsurrealism:

i get anxiety because idk what will come after postmodernism

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3:56pm
Irish channel life (at Irish Channel)

Irish channel life (at Irish Channel)

easy rider (at St. Louis Cemetery No. 1)

easy rider (at St. Louis Cemetery No. 1)

voodoo queen ✨ (at St. Louis Cemetery No. 1)

voodoo queen ✨ (at St. Louis Cemetery No. 1)

the mayfair house 💕 (at 1239 First Street)

the mayfair house 💕 (at 1239 First Street)

lostinurbanism:

Bob Sacha

see u tomorrow new orleans 

lostinurbanism:

Bob Sacha

see u tomorrow new orleans 

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Most girls are relentlessly told that we will be treated how we demand to be treated. If we want respect, we must respect ourselves.

This does three things. Firstly, it gets men off the hook for being held accountable for how they treat women. And secondly, it makes women feel that the mistreatment and sometimes outright violence they face due to their gender is primarily their fault. And thirdly, it positions women to be unable to speak out against sexism because we are made to believe any sexism we experience would not have happened if we had done something differently.

I cannot demand a man to respect me. No more than I can demand that anybody do anything. I can ask men to be nice to me. But chances are if I even have to ask he does not care to be nice. I can express displeasure when I’m not being respected. But that doesn’t solve the issue that I was disrespected in the first place.

I can choose to not deal with a man once he proves to be disrespectful and/or sexist. But even that does not solve the initial problem of the fact that I had to experience being disrespected in the first place.

As a young girl, I wish that instead of being told that I needed to demand respect from men that I had been told that when I am not respected by men that it’s his fault and not mine. But that would require that we quit having numerous arbitrary standards for what it means to be a “respectable” woman. It would mean that I am not judged as deserving violence based on how I speak, what I wear, what I do, and who I am.

excerpt from “FYI, I Cannot “Demand” Respect From Men so Stop Telling Me That!" @ One Black Girl. Many Words.  (via fajazo)

(Source: daniellemertina, via goosebumpsfitsandmalaria)

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